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Hi! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Missouri, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Florida. I earned my Bachelor's Degree from the University of South Florida, and my Master's Degree in Counseling from Florida Gulf Coast University and have been working in the field since 2001. I have worked inpatient and outpatient hospital settings, non-profit agencies, and in private practice.
My experience is extensive, having done much work with couples working to strengthen and preserve their relationship, supported clients who are healing from divorce or other traumatic life events, and worked with individuals who are struggling with depression, anxiety or chronic stress. I have worked with clients who have a significant mental health diagnosis, as well as individuals who are in crisis.
You will find me to be compassionate and thoughtful as we work together to sort through your issues and experiences in order to gain a healthy perspective and healing. Please message me if you're interested in talking before setting up a session.
Professional experience
22yrs in practice
RelationshipsFamily conflictsSelf esteem, MotivationDepressionCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Career difficulties, Coaching, Compassion fatigue, Abandonment, Aging and Geriatric Issues, Attachment issues, Blended Family Issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Codependency, Commitment Issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Divorce and separation, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, Family Problems, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Mood disorders , Narcissism, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Post-traumatic stress, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-love, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young Adult Issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Bonnie Define. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Bonnie is a wonderful counselor and I am grateful for having her help me navigate the difficult seasons of life I am going through. She has lots of good, helpful insights and a spiritual perspective that really is a blessing.
Written on Mar 26, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 years
Bonnie is a gem. She is compassionate, knowledgeable, supportive and flexible in her therapy style/delivery. All things that make for a great therapist. Very grateful to have found her.
Written on Mar 22, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Bonnie, has uncovered for me real wounds I've been carrying from my childhood early into my sessions with her. I've seen other therapists in the past few years who have helped me grow but Bonnie has made a tremendous impact in my growth and helped my self discovery and awareness while offering a light at the end of the tunnel. I feel good about the hard work I have out in with her. It means a healthier and more grounded me. Thank you.
Written on Mar 05, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
My time spent with Bonnie has been very helpful. She’s a good listener, processor, and then responder when appropriate in a way that has been healing for me. I look forward to my time with her.
Written on Feb 02, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues
Bonnie has a wonderful bedside manner and is very attentive to my situation. I would highly recommend her.
Written on Jan 22, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, and parenting issues
Bonnie has really helped me get out of rock bottom and start focusing on myself. She’s helping me set boundaries in my life at learn to stray away from toxic relationships.
Written on Jan 16, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Bonnie is fabulous!
Written on Jan 02, 2024 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 year on issues concerning self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
I love my therapist and my sessions with her!
Written on Dec 28, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
With my situation that I am dealing with, Ms. Bonnie has been a new light in my life when I felt I was living in darkness. Her conversations with me left me feeling a new found hope and a different way to express what I was feeling. I would highly recommend her. I cannot thank her enough to care on making me realize how to overcome what I was going through and knowing someone is there for you to support you was a God send. Thank you from the bottom of my heart .
Written on Dec 09, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Professional, intelligent, insightful and helpful
Written on Dec 03, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Bonnie has been such a kind and insightful ear to turn to and I always feel much more grounded and hopeful after our session!
Written on Dec 01, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 year and 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I’ve never tried talk therapy before and I found Bonnie to be a very caring, attentive, and concerned advocate! We were matched because she is a woman of Faith which is very important to me. I would highly recommend her services for any needs you may have.
Written on Nov 10, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Bonnie helped me to untangle a few concerns which was very helpful. I felt listened to and supported. Thank you.
Written on Oct 12, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, and career difficulties
My time with Bonnie is so beneficial. I’d recommend her to anyone. She is so dialed in and helpful through my difficult time and hears me and my concerns. It is so nice to have the support from her. She really cares. Bonnie communicates very well. She sends information to me and is there for me anytime I need it.
Written on Aug 07, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
I feel very comfortable with Bonnie and I can tell she genuinely cares about me. She is very responsive to my messages, concerns, and even my curiosities.
Written on Jul 22, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Bonnie is very professional. She’s a been there done that kind of therapist and is expertly able to listen for, point out, and remedy my self-sabotaging behaviors with kindness, gentleness, and support. She does not put pressure on me to be anyone but myself or do anything beyond what I am ready for. She responds to my questions and has very logical remedies for snares I find myself in. Most importantly, she is able to point me back to Jesus as a comfort and a way to heal, which has been really helpful to me as a person with church hurt. Thank you Bonnie, we’ve only had 4 sessions, but you’ve already done so much to help me through my grief. Bless you!
Written on Jul 08, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
I’ve spoken to numerous people about Better help and how Bonnie has been so helpful for me. She’s wonderful and listens. She gives feedback and resources for me to go through which help so much.
Written on Jun 20, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She is the best
Written on Apr 17, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Bonnie has been trustworthy and reliable in the short amount of time I’ve known her. I’m not one to reach out for help so I appreciate her timely checkin messages in between appointments. I feel comfort, supported valued
Written on Apr 16, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, coping with life changes, and adhd
Bonnie is amazing. She listens to not just what I say but my tone of voice and even body language. She has sent me numerous articles that relate to each session and prove to be very helpful. I would refer Bonnie as a therapist to anyone!
Written on Apr 11, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, and relationship issues
I have just met Bonnie and I felt very comfortable with her by the end of the session. I look forward to working with her.
Written on Mar 26, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Bonnie is amazing. She is so personable and has helped me through many different seasons in life
Written on Feb 28, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Bonnie is absolutely phenomenal. She responds immediately to texts and is always looking for resources for me.
Written on Jan 17, 2023 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
In a short time, Bonnie has helped me make small changes in my life to help my relationship and I am eternally grateful.
Written on Nov 26, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues
Bonnie has been patient with me in my needed times of support. She is very centered and grounded showing great experience and insight to support. She is very kind and gentle in her approach which is needed at times and gives good resources for support.
Written on Nov 21, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, career difficulties, and coaching
BONNIE CHANGED MY OPINION ON THERAPY. WAS NICE TO FEEL HEARD AND ASKED COMPASSION QUESTIONS AND OFFED GUIDANCE
Written on Nov 18, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 days on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Bonnie is an amazing therapist. I feel comfortable & confident during my sessions with her. She is a great listener & gives great input & advice. Highly recommend her
Written on Nov 15, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks
Bonnie has been helping me get through my struggles she’s patient and lets me get everything off my mind so far my sessions have made a difference on my outlook to my struggles
Written on Oct 30, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
Bonnie is very caring and is a great listener. Her suggestions for therapy are spot on. I feel as though I have already made progress from the guidance I have received from Bonnie. A big
Written on Oct 27, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
She has been so kind, loving in my healing process and also gives great advice on how to do my own healing work beyond our sessions
Written on Oct 20, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Bonnie doesn't just listen to you. She asks questions and gives feedback that is useful. The materials and resources she suggests relate to the issues and are extremely helpful. It is nice to have someone that you can confide in and trust to help you.
Written on Sep 09, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months
Bonnie is so competent and caring. I love working with her and her therapeutic expertise.
Written on Sep 07, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and anger management
Bonnie is very sweet and very knowledgeable she’s helped me a lot and I thank her for that!
Written on Aug 29, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues
I have confidence in her ability to help me
Written on Aug 22, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and coping with life changes
Bonnie has been wonderful! Timely, sensitive and I feel she is listening and asking questions that will better help during this season. I’m grateful for her.
Written on Jul 25, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Thank you for your help Bonnie. It is greatly appreciated
Written on Jul 25, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and self esteem
Bonnie has been a great help during a difficult time.
Written on Jul 11, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
She is great can’t wait to continue
Written on Jun 12, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and anger management
Ms.Bonnie is a great person.
Written on May 03, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
Bonnie is compassionate and caring with healthy wisdom and sound advice. Very helpful!
Written on Apr 29, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Bonnie is amazing... I was so fortunate to have been 'paired' with Bonnie as right from the start she made me feel comfortable in talking with her. Bonnie gently guides you and never pushes you. She has an amazing ability to connect and understand.
Written on Apr 22, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
Bonnie is great
Written on Apr 11, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and grief
Bonnie has been a great help.
Written on Apr 08, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and grief
I was hesitant to do therapy. I tried counseling with someone else through my employer and hated it. It made no difference in my life, but I figured I’d give something new a try. Bonnie is amazing. After the first meeting with her I could feel the heavy weight in me start to lift. It has completely changed my view of therapy and I don’t see how I went all these years with just my medication for my mental health. Bonnie can relate to me and it helps me know she knows what she’s talking about. She also gives me things to think about and try when we aren’t meeting. And she is always able to respond to the message board, usually within just a few hours even. She’s wonderful and I am so thankful for her even though it’s only been a few weeks of meetings.
Written on Apr 06, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Absolutely amazing
Written on Apr 04, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 year and 1 month
Great therapist!
Written on Apr 01, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
I like that she listens and remembers details I would share. Bonnie makes talking to her very easy and opening up to her comes naturally. She also is easily accessable and always recommends alternative methods for therapy for before and after our meetings. She is great at what she does.
Written on Mar 30, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Excellent!
Written on Mar 27, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coaching
She is compassionate and a wonderful listener.
Written on Mar 13, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and coping with life changes
This has been an amazing experience and I would recommend her to anyone who needs comfort and support in their struggles. Thank y'all so much for what you do!
Written on Mar 09, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and bipolar disorder
I just began with Bonnie and Better Help but have found her to be intuitive, compassionate and equipped with skills to help me tackle issues I am addressing
Written on Feb 26, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I have been struggling to deal with attachment issues, depression, and a long distance relationship. And I was crying every night. When I got BetterHelp and chose Bonnie as my therapist, my life has improved immensely. Bonnie helps me think through some of the issues I’ve been having in my life, asking me questions that sort of help me think about my problems in a constructive way. I highly recommend her.
Written on Feb 24, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
I have appreciated Bonnie’s perspective and insight into my life experience.
Written on Feb 19, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Bonnie has been a great help to me. I feel like she has taught me so much about myself, and helped me better understand my thoughts and feelings.
Written on Feb 04, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
Bonnie is wonderful understanding and very resourceful to my needs.
Written on Jan 29, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Bonnie is great!
Written on Jan 27, 2022 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
I am so thankful to have Bonnie as my therapist! She is always willing to work with my schedule. She tries her best to dig deep into what I want to work on and circle back to things she might have a concern about. She knows when to listen and hear what I have to say, but she also knows how to push me and ask questions in the most respectful way possible!
Written on Nov 22, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Bonnie is very knowledgeable in her profession, she knows exactly how to guide and help you. She knows how to make you aware of things you may need to work on in a reassuring manner.
Written on Nov 08, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
I have SO appreciated having a listening ear and an impartial perspective on my issue. Moreover, sound guidance when it felt like my world was falling apart. Everyone needs a little help from time to time. I don't drink. Bartender is out. I doubt I would trust bartender advice. I DO trust Bonnie's advice! A great service that has truly helped me.
Written on Nov 03, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
I haven’t done therapy before, and I was a little nervous about who would be my first therapist, I'm so glad I was matched with Bonnie! I feel comfortable talking to her, and her feedback has helped me a lot.
I hope I can have Bonnie helping me to navigate through the challenges in my life for a long period of time.
Written on Oct 01, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
amazing and professional
Written on Sep 29, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
Very professional, great listener, provides great feedback and helpful practices to improve the issues being addressed. Doesn't treat you like another patient. Sessions are very personable and focused solely on your actual issues. Highly recommend Dr. Define!
Written on Sep 21, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 4 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Bonnie was understanding and very perceptive. I felt that she quickly zeroed in on my concerns and offered helpful suggestions. I look f.orward to talking with her again
Written on Sep 21, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
Bonnie has been really helpful with talking me through my problems. Every time I talk to her I leave the conversation feeling stronger.
Written on Sep 08, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
I feel very comfortable with Bonnie. She is empathic and I enjoy our sessions.
Written on Sep 07, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Bonnie has been a great asset to my mental health! Sometimes things get a little overwhelming for me and become hard to manage but being able to open up and talk about these issues with Bonnie has made me feel a little more level headed! I know I still have a lot of things to be working on but with Bonnies help it doesn’t feel so impossible. I appreciate the advise and support she gives me!
Written on Sep 03, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 1 month on issues concerning self esteem, and coaching
I lucked out getting Bonnie as my therapist. She pays attention to detail, is a great listener, and provides useful feedback. I feel comfortable speaking with her and working through my issues.
Written on Sep 02, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 5 months on issues concerning depression, trauma and abuse, and grief
Bonnie helped me brainstorm practical solutions that made feel empowered to take action to change my career situation. She asks questions that force me to be grateful for the positive things in life while navigating the storm. She makes it feel normal to be vulnerable.
Written on Aug 21, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Bonnie Define guided me onto the right mindset I need. Her presence makes me feel comfortable to speak to her openly.
Written on Jul 31, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Bonnie has been a God-send! Having someone to listen and provide insightful feedback during a challenging time can make a world of a difference and that’s what I have found through my sessions with her! I am beyond thankful!
Written on Jul 28, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
I’ve been working with Bonnie for 3 weeks and plan to continue working with her in the future. She is kind and compassionate. She listens and never makes me feel judged. She is very responsive to my messages and we have extremely productive phone calls. She sends resources to help me in between sessions. I am so grateful for Bonnie and her help!
Written on Jul 22, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
she is amazing at getting to the root cause of my hurt
Written on Jul 16, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, parenting issues, and self esteem
Excellent, Professional, Timely!!!
She listens well and has answer and solution to my problems and concerns
Written on Jan 24, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, and grief
Bonnie is a very compassionate person and seems to care about my well-being. She has continually checked on me and makes herself available if I need her.
Written on Jan 23, 2021 after therapy with Bonnie for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
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