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Beverly Gostomski, LCSW

Stress, Anxiety Relationships Trauma, Abuse Depression Coping with life changes
Video Phone Live Chat Messaging

About me

Hello and Welcome,

Thank you for reaching out for help and support. You have already taken the first step to feeling better by engaging in the therapeutic counseling process. Many times, meeting with a therapist or being in counseling for the first time can be stressful. I hope to put you at ease if this is the case. I provide a safe, caring, non-judgmental space to process your concerns and move forward in a positive direction. If you have been in therapy before, welcome back. Building trust in a therapeutic relationship is the highest priority for me. I feel honored and humbled when clients let me into their world.

In the counseling relationship you will find you do not have to be alone in your struggles. You deserve the very best that life has to offer and you are certainly able to attain a happy, healthy sense of well-being. Everything you need to increase your awareness and reach a healing state is already within you. I believe that you are the expert of you.

I graduated from the State University of New York at Buffalo School of Social Work. Throughout my 20 years experience, I have provided both brief and long-term therapy. I provide individual, couple, and family therapy. My expertise includes:
Life transition
Relationship/marital
Coping/loss
Mood disorders
Stress/anxiety
Women's issues
Trauma work
Childhood sexual abuse
Personal growth
GLBT issues
Effective communication skills
Conflict resolution
Parent/child

I help clients define their goals for treatment and incorporate a variety of therapeutic modalities to meet their individual needs.

I will meet you where you are at and help you make sense of your experiences. I will help you better understand who you are and figure out how to change the things that are keeping you stuck. I would welcome the opportunity to help you explore your concerns and share some tools and techniques to help you navigate your path forward.

Professional experience

20yrs in practice
Stress, Anxiety Relationships Trauma, Abuse Depression Coping with life changes

Additional areas of focus: LGBT, Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Abandonment, Adoption and Foster Care, Aging and Geriatric Issues, Antisocial Personality, Attachment issues, Avoidant Personality, Blended Family Issues, Body image, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain illness and disability, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment Issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster, Dependent Personality, Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic Violence, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, Family Problems, Fatherhood Issues, Fertility Issues, First Responder Issues, Forgiveness, Gender Dysphoria, Guilt and shame, Hoarding, Hospice and End of Life Counseling, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders , Multicultural Concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, Compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships, Postpartum Depression, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Prejudice and Discrimination, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-Harm, Self-love, Sexual Assault and Abuse, Sexual Dysfunction, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Somatization, Trichotillomania, Visually Impaired, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young Adult Issues

Clinical approaches: Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Imago Relationship Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Services offered

Video
Phone
Live Chat
Messaging

License information

FL LCSW SW13545

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Beverly Gostomski. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Beverly is so supportive. I feel at ease and comfortable sharing with her and I am grateful that she provides me with wonderful tools to create a better life for myself. I highly recommend her to anyone.

Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Beverly for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues

I enjoy working with Beverly so much! She gives helpful advice and I have seen wonderdul improvements I need in my life through her help. This is what I signed up here for!!

Written on Mar 09, 2023 after therapy with Beverly for 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, and family conflicts

I have had the privilege of working with Beverly for about a year now and the growth she has helped me with in my life is nothing less than incredible.

I've had therapists in the past, but none that I felt like really understood me, my challenges, my trauma, and how to overcome everything I've gone through.

In working with Beverly, she's genuinely helped me become the person I've always known myself to be and has helped me work through (and continue to work through) my past trauma, manage my CPTSD, and be able to live a more fulfilling life. I'm so grateful to have been connected with her through BetterHelp!

Written on Feb 22, 2023 after therapy with Beverly for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes

Beverly is an amazing listener. She always has WONDERFUL feedback and I don't feel judged when I speak with her.

Written on Nov 30, 2022 after therapy with Beverly for 4 months on issues concerning depression, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and adhd

Beverly has been very instrumental to my growth. She has been an incredible guide, helping me see things that I may have missed but also truly empowering me to locate things for myself. She has allowed me to see that I am not a victim of my mind and given resources to help. She has so much knowledge and I continue to learn more about myself daily through her guidance.

Written on Nov 03, 2022 after therapy with Beverly for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Bev is by far the BEST therapist I have ever had the pleasure of working with. She has always accepted where I was in the process, and has had the right words at the right time consistently. Her gentle encouragement, and unyielding faith in me allowed me to move past self acceptance, to a place where I love, like, and RESPECT myself… I never thought I would get here, and stay here. Her knowledge and life experience allow her a depth of understanding and kindness like I have never seen before. We were able to work through things I had been stuck on for over a decade. With her help, I changed my whole life, and I’m back in school pursuing a career that I’m passionate about, I’m no longer reliant on anxiety medication, and am firmly on my “upward spiral”. The betterhelp platform has allowed me to stay on track, and not miss an appointment when life gets overwhelming. I can not say too many good things about Beverly, or about betterhelp!

Written on Oct 21, 2022 after therapy with Beverly for 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd